{"id":534,"date":"2015-01-21T02:07:40","date_gmt":"2015-01-21T02:07:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/?p=534"},"modified":"2017-11-08T23:46:44","modified_gmt":"2017-11-09T03:46:44","slug":"is-getting-married-without-parents-knowledge-acceptable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/is-getting-married-without-parents-knowledge-acceptable\/","title":{"rendered":"Is getting married without parents\u2019 knowledge acceptable?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Question:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Assalaam walaikum..i am 19yrs old girl where my father is muslim but he is no more now ..and my mother is christian ..from past some yrs I have started learning abt islam..now my question is I am loving a boy n wishing to get marry to that guy..but both families r not ready for the marriage..is that acceptable to get marry without parents knowledge if yes what is the procedure..plz guide me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Answer:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>As-sal\u0101mu \u2018alaykum wa-rahmatull\u0101hi wa-barak\u0101tuh.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Sister in Islam,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">May Allah Ta\u2019ala keep you firm and steadfast on Islam. Ameen<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">In an ideal family situation, we emphasize on consulting with ones parents in major issues of life, especially in marriage related issues. We understand your situation and we comprehend that you do not have the best advantage of consulting with your parents due to their beliefs and lifestyle.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">You are an adult. Shariah permits you to make your independent choice in marriage. In choosing a spouse, you should exercise precaution. You are young and in view of your family background, do not allow yourself to make a wrong choice. Ensure the boy is conscious of Deen and Allah Ta\u2019ala. A person who is conscious of Allah Ta\u2019ala will be sensitive to the needs and comfort of his wife.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Enquire from appropriate people about the boy and also make Isitkhara. For that you may refer to <a style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.askimam.org\/public\/question_detail\/26652\">http:\/\/www.askimam.org\/public\/question_detail\/26652<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Never ever rush in committing to marriage if you are unsure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<strong>And Allah Ta\u2019\u0101la Knows Best<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Mufti Arshad Ali.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Assalaam walaikum..i am 19yrs old girl where my father is muslim but he is no more now<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1601,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[135,193],"class_list":["post-534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage","tag-marriage-2","tag-secret"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/534\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1601"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}