{"id":355,"date":"2014-11-14T18:42:41","date_gmt":"2014-11-14T18:42:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/?p=355"},"modified":"2017-11-08T13:29:25","modified_gmt":"2017-11-08T17:29:25","slug":"is-it-permissible-to-inform-a-person-of-his-fiances-immoral-habits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com\/index.php\/is-it-permissible-to-inform-a-person-of-his-fiances-immoral-habits\/","title":{"rendered":"Is it permissible to inform a person of his fianc\u00e9\u2019s immoral habits?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Question:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">A very pious, well natured brother sent a proposal for marriage to my friend. This friend of mine who I\u2019ve known for a long time has a long history of all the wrong things she has done. She use to drink, take drugs, party, had sexual relation with multiple partner. She was also married once and got divorced after cheating on her husband. I know for a fact this pious brother doesn\u2019t know the truth about her and is completely blind by her beauty.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">Should I say something or leave it the way it is. Technically it\u2019s none of my business but it\u2019s hard to see someone being mislead to this extend and walking towards a self-destruction.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">Please let me know.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">JazakAllahu khair.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Answer:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">As-salamu \u2018alaykum wa-rahmatullahi wa-barakatuh.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Sister in Islam,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Your intention to safeguard the brother in reference from being misled is noble.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">Our advice is you approach your friend and express your concern for her. Tell her you love her and wish well for her. The breakdown of the previous marriage was distressing to you and you hope she will make the best of this marriage. <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">Tell her you want to believe that she changed her lifestyle and the pious person will enhance that.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">It is possible your friend may have already discussed her past with her future spouse. Enquire that from her and advise her of the possible consequences of not doing so.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #000000;\">We do not advise you discuss anything with her future spouse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">And Allah Ta\u2019ala Knows Best.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Arshad Ali<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>https:\/\/fatwa-tt.com<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Trinidad.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Checked and Approved by,<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Mufti Ebrahim Desai<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: A very pious, well natured brother sent a proposal for marriage to my friend. 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